Dress Advice for the Mother of the Groom
There are hundreds of columns, books and articles dedicated to wedding advice for the bride, groom, bridesmaids and even mother-of-the-bride. However, we seldom come across useful advice for the mother of the groom. So, this article is dedicated to the mothers of the grooms, and we will soon explore the guidelines that will help the mother of the groom choose a dress that is appropriate for her son’s wedding.
Going with tradition
Traditionally, it was the bride’s mother who first chose her dress and informed the groom’s mother of her selection. The mother of the groom would then choose a dress that would match. The dresses of both mothers weren’t expected to be a perfect match. Nevertheless, it was common practice that their dresses didn’t clash, but would instead complement each other. So, if the mother of the bride chose a long dress, the mother of the groom would also do the same.
Go with the wedding theme and colors
You should be aware of the various colors that are in the wedding palette, and the type of wedding that is planned. Depending on the specific nature of the wedding, you may choose your dress in a color and style that matches the style of wedding. Take cues from the bridesmaids dresses and choose your dress in a color that complements it, but isn’t the same shade.
Avoid white and black
You should stay away from white, obviously because it is the bridal color. Black isn’t usually considered suitable for a wedding, and unless it is a part of the overall color scheme, or the couple don’t mind you choosing a black dress, it is best avoided.
Comfort is key
It is not a good idea to experiment with daring options in dress styles on this day.You will be spending several hours wearing the dress you choose, so go with a style that you are comfortable in.
Once you choose your dress, get it altered to fit your measurements. This will make sure it flaunts your figure. Also select appropriate innerwear to support you throughout the day, and invest in a good pair of shoes.
Dress appropriately and aim for elegance
Choose a dress silhouette that flatters your figure, and make sure it is one that doesn’t cause any eyebrows to be raised. Modern etiquette rules do not demand that the mother of the groom be dressed conservatively. So, you can choose dresses that highlight the latest trends, but aim for a classic and elegant look. If you want to try something bold, it is a good idea to first get your would-be daughter-in-law’s opinion on whether it would be appropriate for the occasion.
Accessorize to enhance your overall look
Don’t just rely on your dress to look great. Make sure you have the jewelry to add the finishing touches. Classic choices are pearls and diamonds, but you can also go for colored gemstones that match your dress. Choose a stunning clutch and matching shoes to add style to your outfit. Finally pay attention to your makeup and hairstyle to look fabulous.
To choose from a great selection of dresses in all colors and patterns to wear at your son’s lifetime event, visit us at Best for Bride.

About Olga Pomeransky
Olga is manager at Best for Bride since 2005. Currently Best for Bride operates 4 bridal stores in Canada (Toronto, Etobicoke, Hamilton and Barrie). Best for Bride sells wedding, bridesmaids, mob dresses and more. http://www.BestForBride.comRelated Posts
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Kelsey R.
September 23, 2015 at 9:02 AM
For my mom, I am going to do something that is not too flashy! Great tips here!
Linda Lange
November 16, 2015 at 8:43 AM
Me too. She is not a flashy type of person, but I want her to feel good about being dressed up.
Kali
September 23, 2015 at 9:14 AM
Since I am an only child and this is my first wedding, my mom has been flipping out about it. These tips should calm her a little!
Cindy S.
September 23, 2015 at 9:53 AM
My soon to be husband was wondering about this. We are trying the traditional thing with our wedding and he wasn’t sure what to do there. Thank you for the tips!
Valeria
September 23, 2015 at 9:58 AM
This is not going to be a problem for us. His mom died when he was younger and his father never re-married. It is sad, but one less thing to worry about!
Mary Frye
July 30, 2017 at 8:57 AM
This is going to be a problem for us. The mother of the groom does not really get “dressy”. What tips do you have for that?