You know the old wedding rhyme, right? “Something Old, Something New…” It’s been a thing forever, and let’s be honest, it can feel a bit dated, like some rule your great-grandma would follow. But it’s not just some dumb checklist you power through while dealing with cake and seating charts. Think of it more like a mission: to pull together a set of items that actually mean something to you. It’s about taking your past, your future, and your people and literally weaving them into your wedding day.

And you know what? We’re tossing a fifth thing into the mix, just for kicks. Something Golden. This is your chance to add a little modern luxury and a symbol of the bright future you’re building. By picking these five things with some actual thought, you end up with a look that’s not just beautiful, but has a story behind it.